In the entertainment world, it’s common to see celebrities dating, breaking up, and getting back together. But a relationship like that of Guan Xiaotong and Lu Han—lasting nearly eight years since they first announced it—is quite rare. Initially, many netizens opposed their union, but over time, most have come to hope they stay together.
Observing their current situation offers some insight into the state of their relationship. On June 27, Guan Xiaotong stood on stage as the youngest recipient of the Magnolia Award, delivering a speech about her journey as an actress. This moment revealed to many just how far ahead she has surged among her 95-born peers, proving her talent is no small matter.
Starting as a child star and earning top scores to get into the Beijing Film Academy, Guan’s abilities stood out even in school, making her transition into the entertainment industry smoother than most. This contrasts with actresses like Yang Zi, who, despite early fame in hit dramas such as \"Home with Kids,\" had to start over after university, gradually gaining recognition years later through roles like \"Jin Mi\" in Ashes of Love.
Guan Xiaotong, however, maintained a steady stream of roles during her student years, working alongside actors like Sun Honglei and Zhang Ruoyun. She shines not only on TV dramas but also in films, collaborating with directors like Zhang Yimou and sharing screens with stars such as Deng Chao and Sun Li. Her background in an artistic family—with an actor father and a nurturing mother—provided solid support that helped her build a stable acting career.
After graduation, Guan’s career soared, balancing dramas, films, and variety shows simultaneously. However, many viewers have noticed a pattern in her acting: she tends to rise to the occasion when working with strong co-stars like Yan Ni, Jiang Xin, or Guo Xiaodong, but her performance seems to dip when paired with less experienced actors like Fan Chengcheng or Lu Han.
Yet, given a strong role, Guan seizes the opportunity. Her portrayal of Zhuang Xiaoting in the 2024 drama Xiaoxiang Renjia won praise, especially for scenes opposite Guo Xiaodong. In those moments, Zhuang Xiaoting finally defies her father, expressing her true feelings and saying “no” for the first time—a breakthrough scene that showcased Guan’s nuanced acting.
Her participation with the Xiaoxiang Renjia team at the Magnolia Awards reaffirmed her growing stature. Thanks to her solid skills, quality projects and offers continue to come her way.
On July 11, Guan Xiaotong appeared at the opening ceremony of the Beijing International Exhibition Center’s beer festival, representing the Yanjing brand. Dressed in a white, sleeveless mini dress, she transformed on stage into a full-fledged idol, captivating the audience with her energetic dance performance. Photos captured by fans reminded everyone that her beauty has always been there, even if her acting roles sometimes overshadow it.
Currently, Guan is filming the drama Yao Yan, which highlights her delicate looks beautifully. On July 8, she shared a behind-the-scenes clip on Weibo showing her character Qing Ye riding an electric tricycle, her fresh-faced appearance radiating youthful energy. That post’s related hashtag surpassed a billion views in just one day.
Then on July 13, her studio released an artistic visual series titled Tracing Light. Barefoot in the misty reed fields, Guan shed heavy makeup and false lashes, sparking what fans called a “white moonlight aesthetic wave.” It seemed that even Guan herself might have realized that her natural look is what fans truly adore.
While Guan Xiaotong’s career is shining brighter than ever, her romantic life appears to take a backseat. At 19, she bravely announced her relationship with Lu Han, choosing love over hesitation. As expected, the news sparked widespread discussion and even caused a platform crash due to heavy traffic—though Guan bore the brunt of criticism since Lu Han was already a top idol while she was considered a rising star.
Initially, the couple shared photos and public displays of affection, but over time, their posts became less frequent, eventually limited to annual birthday wishes. By April 2025, Guan even stopped posting birthday greetings for Lu Han, leading many to speculate that they might have broken up.
This speculation intensified after Lu Han’s controversial livestreams in November 2024, where he used foul language, made rude gestures, and clashed with viewers. The lack of interaction between the two afterward fueled breakup rumors. Although Chen He, during a livestream, insisted their relationship was “fine,” many fans remained skeptical.
Fortunately, six months later, Lu Han bounced back with a well-received concert and reactivated his social media accounts. His fanbase surged by millions within days. The concert itself was a massive event, with tickets notoriously hard to get—comparable to the frenzy of China’s Spring Festival travel rush.
Lu Han’s preparation for the concert was meticulous: from carefully manicured nails and a lean physique to highly polished singing and dancing skills. His lively mood was evident when he joked with fans during a laugh challenge, where the loser had to “take off clothes.” Though he lost and blushed, he politely refused, sparking fans’ playful chants of “take it off!” The phrase “Lu Han I lost” even trended on social media, reflecting his enduring popularity.
Seeing Lu Han laughing on stage and casually shopping mask-free with friends like Gao Hanyu suggests he has genuinely regained his upbeat spirit. This positive energy hints that the relationship with Guan Xiaotong might not be over yet.
After all, neither of them has changed their social media bios, deleted their birthday messages, or removed any official announcements. Celebrities usually keep such details updated to reflect changes in their personal lives, so the absence of any edits is telling.
Moreover, at the Magnolia Awards, the giant screen behind Guan displayed a photo of her shared by Lu Han—a subtle sign of connection. Both are straightforward personalities who likely wouldn’t hide a breakup; if anything, they might announce it openly.
It seems more plausible that they’re simply focusing on their individual careers for now. For a relationship that has lasted seven years publicly, there’s reason to remain hopeful.
True love doesn’t always need to be flaunted. Some people prefer to avoid the pressures of public scrutiny and choose to keep their relationship private—and that’s perfectly valid.
